Spring-Loaded Lock Connectors
WARNING: This page is about a different car, the 2000 Acura 3.5RL. However, it is still accessible from the selected car via links, so may be relevant.
To disconnect, pull spring-loaded sleeve toward stop while holding opposite half of connector. Then pull connector halves apart. Be sure to pull on sleeve and not on connector itself. See Fig 1.
To connect, hold pawl-side connector half, and press on back of sleeve-side connector half in direction shown. As connector halves are pressed together, sleeve is pushed back by pawl. DO NOT touch sleeve. When connector halves are completely connected, pawl is released, and spring-loaded sleeve locks connector.
When backprobing spring-loaded lock connectors, remove retainer before inserting test probes from wire side. Carefully pry out retainer with flat-tip screwdriver. Retainer may be discarded after removal.